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Without support systems, families caught in COVID quandary

You want your kids back in school this fall because getting them to learn online last spring while you tried to act professional in work Zoom meetings was a lost cause. You worry that the new COVID-19 protocols for schools will make it difficult for your kids to get the consistent support they need. But now that you鈥檙e expected to be back in the office, you need your kids to get on that school bus every morning. Otherwise, you may find yourself out of a job.

That鈥檚 the dilemma facing countless working parents as K-12 school districts across the country grapple with the decision of whether to reopen classrooms in the fall, continue with remote learning or go half and half with a hybrid model. 

For , an associate professor of  in the , the back-to-school quandary is just the latest pandemic-related issue that overlaps with her research on how parenting affects career success for women and men.

鈥淚鈥檝e always been attuned to how all of these systems 鈥 family, employment, the economy, education, public health, etc. 鈥 are interconnected,鈥 Humberd says. 鈥淪o the good news is that other people are now seeing the need for these to be connected. But when a crisis like this tears it all apart, I think that鈥檚 why we鈥檙e having such a hard time navigating through a lot of this.鈥

Humberd, an associate in the university鈥檚 , has been a go-to media source of late in discussing the pandemic鈥檚 lopsided impact on women鈥檚 careers. She also just co-authored an article with Assoc. Prof. of Strategic Management  on what the pandemic means for the .

鈥淪o much is being left to the families to figure out right now,鈥 says Humberd, who counts her own young family among them. 鈥淚鈥檓 glad to be able to speak to it, but I wish it was better news. I don鈥檛 have a super optimistic view right now of what this period will do for equality and professional women鈥檚 careers when we look back at the data in 10 years.鈥

Humberd recently shared her thoughts on how the crisis is impacting working parents, the unintended consequences of not reopening schools and day care centers, and what the post-pandemic workplace might look like.

Q. You say that during times of crisis, we tend to fall back on inequitable patterns. Why is that the case, and what does that mean for working women?

A. As much as there has been progress around professional women and dual-working families over the past two to three decades, there were still patterns of inequity where more of the 鈥渟econd shift鈥 of household work and child care fell traditionally to moms versus dads. And I鈥檓 referring to aggregate patterns here; there are obviously households where that鈥檚 not the case. The reason we were able to move from that more traditional family structure to dual-working families is because we had things like child care, after-school programs and camps 鈥 even family members who could help. When the pandemic started, those support systems were gone in an instant. As a result, there is a lot of new research coming out showing that women are taking on more of the homeschooling. It鈥檚 more likely to be the woman who is going to pare back her hours at work or, unfortunately, leave her job.

Q. Do you see those support systems for working families returning?

A. There鈥檚 such uncertainty around if, how and when any reliable supports for working parents are coming back, and that鈥檚 been nagging me. You could argue that the situation is even more stark right now than maybe it was four months ago because we鈥檙e starting to see the economy and jobs up and running with literally no sense of any reliable support structures for working parents. Day cares are supposedly 鈥渞eopened,鈥 but many have not been able to reopen or are struggling to stay afloat because the government guidelines are so restrictive. We have these plans for all these other aspects of the economy reopening and just no certainty or reliability around support systems for working parents. I understand that the health-related guidelines are done with the best public health interests in mind, but I think we鈥檙e starting to lose a little bit of sight as to how to balance public health with actually allowing these support structures to be used and be useful. I鈥檓 not disregarding the public health concern, but I am trying to call attention to possible unintended consequences to all of these other systems 鈥 like education, families and employment 鈥 that are impacted by the public health approach. We have to find the right balance.

Q. What are those unintended consequences?

A. I鈥檓 concerned that in the absence of these social systems that support working families, people are going to do a mishmash of their own thing: putting their kids in unregulated child care settings or having potentially high-risk grandparents watch the kids out of necessity. These social structures that were available to the masses to make this work are being left to individuals to figure out on their own, which I worry in the longer term will be more of a detriment. If we close schools but we have day care programs combining children from six elementary schools because that鈥檚 the only way for working families to make ends meet, is that really what we want?

Q. Many companies have been able to let employees work from home during the pandemic. Could this signal a larger change in how companies treat working parents?

A. Early on, this was actually a good thing for those of us who were calling for companies to be more understanding of who employees are both inside and outside of the workplace. The severity of what this did early on forced many organizations to be more flexible. Now we run this risk, though, of people seeing headlines that day cares have reopened and thinking families have it all figured out. Many employees aren鈥檛 able to make that happen. As an organization or manager, it鈥檚 important to continue checking in and understanding employees鈥 unique situations. The informal culture right now is super important for the workers and organization to survive, but I don鈥檛 think that the long-term solution for working families more broadly can be, 鈥淲ell, just find an organization with a really supportive informal culture.鈥

Q. When the pandemic finally ends, what will be the lasting effects in the workplace?

A. I鈥檓 not one of those people who think, 鈥淥h, the great work from home experiment 鈥 we鈥檒l never go back to the office again.鈥 I don鈥檛 think that would be a good thing. But one silver lining to this could be: Will we finally break free from these outdated norms of 9-to-5 work, five days a week, in a cubicle, where those people who are seen as the best performers are the ones in the office the most? I can see one of three things happening: I can see organizations going more remote than they ever thought they would; I can see companies slowly easing back to their same normal as before just because we鈥檙e creatures of habit; and I鈥檓 a little concerned we could see a third group where some companies and managers will swing the other way and want to bring us all back tighter and with more surveillance, because for such a long period here they haven鈥檛 had as much control over their departments and organizations. I hope we land somewhere between one and two, where we鈥檙e a little more amenable to remote work in areas that maybe we wouldn鈥檛 have thought possible, but still have in-person interactions to build trust and collaboration.